From the owner of ThatSmolGirl10, A note about my other sensational tumblr, That Boarding School Girl which was formed after several false starts in a number of reasons as being slightly more mature schoolgirl regression with kawaii and fashion posts mirroring one I had in the mid 2010's until it got axed.
It's the Tumblr that mirrors the external blog of the same name apart from not have any polly ticks on it where links to this and the other blog go in turbulent world at that site so it's probably as well anything of consequence is on an old school blog.
And I might add that Easter Bunny egg is no more as it's in me tummy!
Not for what at times feels like the hundredth time we are going around that cyclical Tumblr discourse around Age Regression, terms and inter community strife so while I was supposed to be resting I'll talk a bit about it off site.
Our differences are about our comfort zones, what we see certain disputed terms as meaning and never at individuals on the AgeRe Camp, Sensitive Regression and Kidhearts side who are regressing because for personal reasons, like us they need to.
That's what this regression thing is actually about for all of us a means of coping with stress, trauma and certain conditions and disabilities, finding that child within and yes being comforted as many of us feel like we're headed for a meltdown.
We use different words to describe that space we enter in - heartspace, little space,Tot Space etc are different -but the space we are in, how we feel in it and what we do is the same.
Indeed if we could look at pictures of what we are all doing we'd see the same things and sadly that is what has gone missing in the last three years of Age Regression discourse on Tumblr as all of us who wanted a break from any kink stuff while we are regressing not least if you're a Minor created or found communities.
It's like there's a whole plethora of communities some allied to clubs that basically are about the same thing just disagreeing terms and setting up picket fences to keep out those they feel may invade 'their' tags or attract the attention of those who are engaged in sexual, 18+ nsfw or kink via a reblog.
The thing is through those people who are likely to host any kind of explicit material are less likely to that concerned that your community or mine don't want them as you find as I do porn blogs and kink blogs attach themselves from time to time regardless or reblog your posts even if you stick a DNI on it.
You see while I strongly supported the move toward Age Regression spaces on Tumblr especially for minors and still do, for all the differing communities we made, each and every time we tried by changing our terms, making new tags that hasn't given us the totally safe haven we needed as so many did and still do mix their kink, ddlg, age play in with our stuff or decided to follow, ignoring our boundaries.
Indeed it seems the very attempt to cure this by ever stricter rules about the terms and tags we use doesn't so much solve this but leads to greater suspicion and animosity between differing communities who as I said before are doing the exact same thing.
Then we have what are seeing more of attempts to tell people who don't belong to any Community who they can interact with or face being told they cannot interact with community and clubs x, y and z any more.
That's just adding to the problem because what are individuals who regress should only need to concerned with the boundaries of other individuals they chose to interact with.
That is one reason why I am saying to people who are not in communities on the Age Regression Society side (or left) who are 100% safe for work, non sexual age regressors I have no issue with you following or following you cos we're doing the same thing even though I use Cglre terms.
Peace!
Jo, Cglre and LilTot Age Regressing internet sensation!
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